How a girl pursues and gets you *Exclusive

It all starts when she picks her target. She is good at judging a guy based on his appearance and she can easily spot a guy who is worthy of her attention.

Soon, after basic research of your locations she ensures that she is in your proximity. A situation arises whereby you are forced to interact with her. Before you know it, she has been nice to you smiled and probably made you take her phone number.

Turns out that she is really cool. She even compliments you, something other girls have rarely done. Ego massaging and all. She replies to your texts and before you know it you have asked her out on a date after she subtly hinted “Hey, we should do lunch”. This is where you summon your internal financial planner and mobilise date funds.

She is really good. She asks all the right questions. “What do you do?”, “Are you seeing someone?”, “what are your views on sex or relationships”, “how do you think money should be handled?” and other vetting questions just to see if you fit her bill. She throws you off when you give a dumb answer when she says “I wouldn’t take a guy seriously if he didn’t do….. Blah blah”

An alarm goes off in your mind. ‘Challenge accepted’. She is replying to your texts and their frequency has increased. Then one day, out of the blue she calls you “Honey”. This does crazy stuff to you.

The thought of her becoming your girlfriend crosses your mind. You justify your attraction to her with a logical answer like “She has nice dresses”. Since she did her research well, she strategically places herself in your life by adopting similar habits.

If you are a fitness guy, she says “I wanna start jogging too”. There is always some similarity that she will find that will make you think that she is a perfect fit for you. After days of contemplating and lying to your boys “Man, I can’t fall for a girl” you one day find yourself confessing your love for her. Like a little bitch you try to find a way to express your emotions and her, being the smart lady that she is just stands there watching, pretending not to be moved by your courage.

She is now your girl, and this is where the game begins. You now have to compliment her 5 times as much. You get to discover a side of her that you never knew. She drives you crazy to test you. You are now in constant pursuit of her like a man chasing a bus that will never stop. Remember when she used to chase you? That was the bait. Now its your job to be a man and constantly chase her and keep her interest plus trust.

Don’t fall for this trap!